Why self-leadership is essential to lead others

For leaders, it's not just about understanding your strengths and weaknesses. It’s about recognising how your actions affect others

Last month, personal brand expert Jon Michail wrote about mastering executive presence. Now he’s back to talk about the profound impact of self-leadership on effective management.

“At its core, self-leadership is about mastering oneself before trying to guide others. It’s about honing self-awareness, managing oneself with discipline and harnessing intrinsic motivation. This isn’t just theory. It’s a crucial practice that shapes how leaders, their EAs and chiefs of staff operate and succeed.

Self-awareness is where everything begins
For leaders, it’s not just about understanding your strengths and weaknesses. It’s about recognising how your actions affect others. A leader’s self-awareness directly influences the effectiveness of their communication and decision-making.

As EAs will know, part of this is being able to anticipate needs and adapt strategies based on a leader’s style and preferences. Without this awareness, the potential for misunderstandings and inefficiencies grows.

Self-management is the next critical pillar
It’s not about time management. But about controlling your emotions, thoughts and reactions, particularly in high-pressure situations.

For leaders, maintaining composure under stress fosters a positive work environment and sets a standard for the entire team. For those supporting leaders, effective self-management ensures they can tend to their leader’s needs without being overwhelmed, thus maintaining operational efficiency.

Intrinsic motivation is what keeps leaders driven and aligned with their organisational vision
This genuine commitment to goals and values fuels resilience and inspires the team. For EAs, understanding and mirroring this motivation can enhance your support role. It will ensure your efforts are aligned with the broader mission – and contributing to a cohesive team environment.

The ripple effect of self-leadership extends to the entire team
Leaders who excel in self-leadership create a culture of productivity and engagement. This influence is crucial for EAs who play a vital role in translating a leader’s vision into actionable plans. You need to model and support these self-leadership principles to ensure the smooth operation and success of the team.

Cultivating self-leadership is a continuous ‘awareness’ journey
It involves regular self-reflection, mindfulness practices, setting clear personal goals, and seeking ongoing learning and mentorship. By investing in these practices, you can contribute to a more effective and harmonious work environment.

In essence, mastering self-leadership is not just about personal growth. It’s about enhancing the collective capability of your team. As the saying goes: ‘You cannot lead others until you first lead yourself’.

Embracing self-leadership is the intelligent and responsible approach for any leader striving to unlock their full potential and drive their organisation to new heights.”